Ki te pono atu ki a koe, ko te huinga tino whakahīhī o te kākahu ko te koti me te kākahu, he watea, he ataahua hoki ngā mea e rua, kāore au i te mōhio me pēhea te whiriwhiri i ngā kākahu o ia rā, ngā mea e rua hei hanga i te huinga katoa, kāore au i te mōhio me pēhea te whiriwhiri i te huarahi hei haere ki te mahi, ko te ātaahua, ngā ture me te raupapa o te koti ka taea te whakatutuki i te āhuarangi o te wāhi mahi.
Te tangata mārire, te tangata whakamākakahuka taea te whakaatu i te ataahua wahine, kaua e nui rawa, kaua e whakanuia rawa, he āhua noa, he hinengaro hoki, he ngawari, he huatau!
Ko te huinga o te koti me te kākahu tētahi o ngā huinga tino noa i te oranga o ia rā, ahakoa he koti ki te kākahu, he kākahu rānei ki te koti, ko tetahi atu te whiringa pai rawa atu, ko te whiringa tuatahi!
Ehara i te mea tapu te whakakotahitanga o te koti me te kākahu, ahakoa te momo kāhua, ahakoa te rauemi, ahakoa te tae, e kore e ngaro te mā i te kakahu, e kore hoki te tangata nui e mangere, he mea mō ngā wā katoa, ahakoa te āhuarangi, ahakoa te tangata, he huinga toa mō te katoa!
Ka taea e te katoa te ako mai i te whakakotahitanga o te ataahua me te motuhake, me tino aro ki ngā taipitopito. Hei mau i te whakakotahitanga o te koti me te kākahu ataahua, me aro atu ki ngā taipitopito e whai ake nei!
I te wā e whiriwhiri ana i ngā koti me ngāngā kākahu, me whakarite kia ōrite te āhua o te momo kākahu, ā, i te wā e whiriwhiri ana i tētahi momo kākahu e tika ana mō te wāhi mahi, me whiriwhiri ngā hūtu me ngā kākahu he maeneene ngā rārangi, he tuitui toru-ahu, kāore he tānga tamariki e kitea ana, ā, he takataka noa iho te papanga.
I te wā e whiriwhiri ana i tētahi koti me tētahi kākahu e tika ana mō te haere i ia rā, ko te mea nui ko te wetewete me te huatau, engari me whakarite kia rite te hoahoa o ngā papa pakihiwi, kia wetewetehia te tinana ngongo tika, kia momona, kia kitea ai te hope iti e toru putu te teitei i raro i te kākahu, kia kī tonu te kaumātua!
Ko te pakihiwi matau, ko te pakihiwi e rite ana ki ngā whakaritenga, mena ka taea te pupuri, kāore te tinana o runga e whakakatakata i te tangata, he rite te kakano, mena he wetekina, he piri rānei te kākahu, kei te hinengaro o te tangata katoa! I te wā e whiriwhiri ana i ngā kākahu me ngā koti hūtu, me aro hoki koe ki te taurite o ngā kākahu me ngā koti hūtu, kaua e pupuhi te mea tuatahi.
Ko te mea nui kia aro atu ki te take ko te raruraru o te whakapūpū o ngā kakahu i runga i te pakihiwi. Kōwhiria te kākahu piri, ahakoa he ringaringa roa, he ringaringa poto rānei, e kore e pupuhi. Ahakoa he wetekina, he piri rānei te koti, he pai te āhua o te tirohanga, he tino pai!
Heoi, ki te mea he kākahu mangere, momona hoki, ko te kākahu hāte te mea tuatahi hei whiriwhiri, ko te kākahu kore-ringa engari ko te kākahu pakihiwi te mea tuarua, hei tāpiri atu ki ētahi atu roa, kāore ngā ringaringa ngāwari e tutuki i ngā whakaritenga o te noho ma, koi hoki.
Ka taea e te kakahu kotahi te "whakamate nui i te tokowhā", ka puta te kakahu taupatupatu he tino pupuhi, he kirikiri. Ahakoa te kaupapa i whiriwhiria, ka tino pā ki te āhua me te wairua, koinei hoki te mea nui ki te whakakotahitanga o te koti me te kakahu kia kore e pakaru!
Heoi, ki te mea he mangere, he momona hokikakahu, i te kōwhiringa o te kākahu kākahu hāri te kōwhiringa tuatahi, ko te kākahu kore-ringa engari ko te kākahu pakihiwi te kōwhiringa tuarua, hei tāpiri atu ki ētahi atu roa, kāore ngā ringaringa wetekina e tutuki i ngā whakaritenga o te hononga ma, koi hoki.
Ka taea e te kakahu kotahi te "whakamate nui i te tokowhā", ka puta te kakahu taupatupatu he tino pupuhi, he kirikiri. Ahakoa te kaupapa i whiriwhiria, ka tino pā ki te āhua me te wairua, koinei hoki te mea nui ki te whakakotahitanga o te koti me te kakahu kia kore e pakaru!
I te wā e whiriwhiri ana i tētahi koti me tētahi kākahu, kia tupato kia kaua e poto te momo kākahu, he rite tonu ngā koti me ngā kākahu. I raro i ngā āhuatanga noa, e rua ngā momo kākahu, ko tētahi he rite te roa ki te kākahu o JK engari he momo hope, ko tētahi he ngāwari ki te kapi i te papa o te momo kākahu noa, whiriwhiria te mea tuatahi e whakaatu ana i te ōwehenga o te hope-ki-te-hope, ko te hope-ki-Ying he iti, he pūkohu, he momo kākahu ataahua te ōwehenga o te hope-ki-te-hope, kī tonu i te wahine.
Kōwhiria te mea whakamutunga he nui ake te tauwehenga haumaru, ka ngaro katoa ngā hapa o te tinana i raro i tōna hipoki, he tino pai te noho tahi, kaua e ngaro te kakahu i te whai i ngā tuahine tino pai, ka taea te whakarerekē i te ōwehenga kaki me te pakihiwi, te ōwehenga hope me te hope!
E rite ana ngā momo kākahu e rua ki ngā paerewa kakahu o ia rā, hei tāpiritanga, ka taea hoki e tātou te aro ki te whiriwhiri me te whakanoho o te kākahu, he painga te taha o runga o te kākahu, engari me aro anō hoki ki te roa o te kākahu!
Ko ngā kākahu roa e toru te roa e tino pai ana te hono atu ki ngā koti.
Ko te tuatahi ko te pūeru poto, e hipoki ana i te haurua o te roa o te kakahu kia rite ki ngā whakaritenga o te kakahu, ā, ko te koti roa noa, ko te United States e rua, he hiahia parakore ki te A te tikanga, he kaha te pānga tirohanga, kia kore ai e puehu, e kore e pai te mahi, he pai ake te whiriwhiri i ngā kopa āhua-A kaua ki te putea ngongo tika, ko te mea tuatahi he pai ake te hau, ko te mea tuarua he pai ake mo te mahi!
Tuarua, he mea pai kia whiriwhiria he roa o te pūeru e kapi ana i te haurua o tō kuao kau, e kore e pehi i te roa, e kore hoki e pā ki te āhua me te āhua, ā, he tino hoahoa, he ātaahua hoki mō ngā wāhine o ngā reanga katoa.
Ka taea e mātou te okioki mārie, ehara tēnei hoahoa roa o te pūeru i te mea e kiia nei ko te "haurua te roa, ehara i te poto", ehara i te mea whakama te kakahu kotahi, he tino "haurua te roa, ehara i te poto" te turi, kia mahara ki te karo! Hei whakamutunga, ka tūtohu mātou kia whakamātau koe i tētahi pūeru roa tae noa ki te pona, me te hoahoa pūeru korekore, he āhua me te huatau, he hau o te puna o Āperira, he pūeru e rere ana, me te mea he moemoeā!
Wā tuku: Hakihea-20-2024
